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Fjelstad, Margalis, 1945-
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Narcissism.
Narcissists -- Family relationships.
Enabling (Psychology)
Codependency.
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Stop caretaking the ...
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Stop caretaking the borderline or narcissist: how to end the drama and get on with life [electronic resource] / Margalis Fjelstad.
by
Fjelstad, Margalis, 1945-
Subjects
Narcissism.
Narcissists
--
Family
relationships
.
Enabling (Psychology)
Codependency.
Publisher Info:
[United States] : Author's Republic : Made available through hoopla, 2016.
Edition:
Unabridged.
Description:
1 online resource (1 audio file (8hr., 03 min.)) : digital.
ISBN:
9781518926747 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book)
1518926746 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book)
Summary:
People with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders have a serious mental illness that primarily affects their intimate, personal, and
family
relationships
. Often they appear to be normally functioning at work and in public interactions, and
Narcissists
may even be highly effective, in the short term, in some work or social situations. However, in intimate
relationships
, they can be emotional, aggressive, demeaning, illogical, paranoid, accusing, and controlling-in the extreme. Their ability to function normally or pleasantly can suddenly change in an instant, like flipping a switch. These negative behaviors don't happen once in a while; they happen almost continuously in their intimate
relationships
and most often, and especially with their Caretaker
family
member. Here, Margalis Fjelstad describes how people get into a Caretaker role with a Borderline or Narcissist, and how they can get out. Caretakers give up their sense of self to become who and what the Borderline or Narcissist needs them to be. This compromises the Caretaker's self-esteem, distorts their thinking processes, and locks them into a Victim-Persecutor-Rescuer pattern with the Borderline or Narcissist. The book looks at the underlying rules and expectations in these
relationships
and shows Caretakers how to move themselves out of these rigid interactions and into a healthier, more productive, and positive lifestyle-with or without the Borderline/Narcissistic partner or
family
member. It describes how to get out of destructive interactions with the Borderline or Narcissist and how to take new, more effective actions to focus on personal wants, needs, and life goals while allowing the Borderline or Narcissist to take care of themselves. It presents a realistic, yet compassionate, attitude toward the self-destructive nature of these
relationships
, and gives real life examples of how individuals have let go of their Caretaker behaviors with creative and effective solutions.
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https://www.hoopladigital.com/title/11667113
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